I am trying to help him stay at the church nth work, I think if I really love him like I always tell him I should let him chose and love him the way he is.
Meanwhile, he'll be adored and revered and flirted with by divorced nurses who would jump in the sack with him at a moment's notice. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag.
I wanted so badly to marry a guy who had recently left the church. But I'm glad for all the advice I read on this blog.