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They value femininity, motherhood, and masculinity in men.
I know you got a zillion replies, and I have not read them. She is in pretty deep and culture is a powerful force.
I am a 47 yr old Mom of a 4 yr old child with special needs who is completely alone to care for my child a good part of the time. But if you are with someone who is plainly selfish or dishonest or mean, then don't let them use their occupation as an excuse.
You can always expand these into group dates by inviting other couples along, which may make her more comfortable in the early stages of your relationship. Somewhere down the road, you will find another girl who will be a much better match for you.